Marriage by the Numbers: Planning Your Wedding Using Numerology
some good news amidst the mess!
What’s up, swimmers?! First and foremost, I am sending you all of the love, comfort and protection I can muster. I hope that you are taking good care, practicing gentleness with yourself and others, and finding moments of of calm amidst the noise.
Deciding to stay off social media this week has been an interesting choice, one that, in a positive sense, has allowed my body to stay out of panic mode as much as is possible. But it also added to the incredibly chilling sense of stunned silence that permeated much of Tuesday night and Wednesday.
In the days that have followed, it’s been heartening to speak and connect with people in other spaces. To pick up the phone and call my friends. To receive “checking in” texts from beloveds. To watch silly movies and laugh in the group chat. To read threads of vent sessions and reading lists and action items in discords full of wise and wonderful folks. To hear what people are working on, planning, making, looking forward to in the future. To read stories of queer joy, love and resilience. To gather together online to vision and write in Landscapes. To scroll through Substack and feel held, activated and inspired.
This is how we will get through. This is how we will survive. Together.
The word community gets thrown around so much these days it’s lost some of its meaning, but it is still available in many forms, and necessary—always, but especially in the coming year(s). Right here, right now, I sincerely hope you’re finding ways to feel connected, rooted, and supported. I’m always here for you. If you need someone, don’t hesitate to reach out.
And, in the name of joy, continuance, celebration and resistance, I am hoping to share some good news with you!
Announcing my new book — Marriage by the Numbers 💍 🔢 📘
If you’re planning a wedding, know someone who’s newly engaged, or even just stockpiling Pinterest boards for the future, I hope you’ll consider adding my new book, Marriage by the Numbers: Planning Your Wedding Using Numerology to your resources!
And not only did I write the damn thing, but it’s also chock-full with my original illustrations, including the cute cover design!
This easy-to-use guide helps you discover the divine blueprint behind your big day and set the cosmic stage for a lasting and harmonious marriage. You’ll use numerology to unlock each part of the planning process to arrive at a ceremony that’s aligned with your energy and expectations.
Each chapter offers unique insight and instruction to help you:
Find the best wedding date
Calculate Core Numbers to explore each energy & theme
Design your ideal wedding altar & ceremony space
Choose a unity ceremony
Write your wedding vows
Write a personalized wedding ceremony script
Officiate a wedding ceremony by the numbers
Share the magic of numerology with guests
Calculate your Life Path Number
Create a Personal Harmony Chart for you & your partner
Find your Marriage Number
This unique guide also includes:
Ready-to-use wedding ceremony script for the officiant
Sample wedding vows for each Core Number
Recommended unity rituals for each Core Number
Advice on avoiding difficult energy & personalities
Tips for first-time & experienced wedding officiants
Marriage by the Numbers is published by American Marriage Ministries, a non-profit, interfaith and non-denominational constitutional church that “exists to fulfill a spiritual need that other institutions are not willing to, or unable to provide - access to marriage for all, regardless of religion, sexuality, or other defining traits.” The book will be available for purchase on December 3rd through their online shop—official links to come!
In the meantime…
Come celebrate virtually with me on launch day—December 3rd!
Marriage by the Numbers Virtual Launch Party | Dec. 3rd — 2PM PT / 5PM ET
Join us on December 3rd as I read excerpts from my new book, answer audience questions, and perform numerological date interpretations live! Submit your dates beforehand for a chance to be included in the numerology interpretations and be sure to register for the party to get the official invite link!
Weigh in on Year Ahead Offerings… 📆
2025, a collective 9 year in numerology, has some really fascinating features on its own, but will be even juicier when combined with personally yearly cycle numbers. I’m absolutely whipping up some new offerings, but curious if you have a preference between:
Call Your Coven is new — All About “Angel” Numbers 👼
Today, I take to the mic to talk about a hot topic in spiritual circles—repeating numbers, or as some call them, angel numbers! Listen in to find out what repeating numbers represent in numerology, how we can receive messages from them, and what the history of repeating numbers can offer us about their present, their future, and their uses as a tool for personal meaning-making? Plus, I address the infamous, confusing and ironic Doreen Virtue problem…
Congrats on the new book. I'm already hitched, but do you think it would be helpful for thinking about re-commitment ceremonies and such?
I just finished the November forecast, but your CYC ep is near the top of my queue for my next walk. I'm glad you've been taking care and talking to people ON THE PHONE. It feels so good to me and I don't really like that we've moved to "text preferred" culture. Maybe this is good reason to push us back to actual voice chats.