Happy 11/22! A date that perhaps holds numerological significance with those Doubled Digits, but is first and foremost my wife’s and my wedding anniversary! Yes, we did elect to get married on a 6 day (1+1+2+2 = 6), and yes we did get married two days after our dating anniversary because the astrology was also better that day! And that was years before I would start thinking about numerology and wedding planning in an in depth way.
It’s also an overall 5 day this year (1+1+2+2+2+0+2+4 = 14, 1+4 = 5), so I thought it was the perfect date to kick off a new segment of SITS called The Friday Five 🖐️. The world is wacky, so almost-every Friday I’m going to pop into your inbox with 5 things that helped me get through the week.
These could be articles, books, movies, television shows, inspirational quotes, really cool people or communities, places visited, bath or beauty products, crafts, hobbies, decisions I made, witchy practices, new ideas, spiritual tools, YouTube videos, and more!
And while sometimes this list might include links to purchase, I am going to keep it as anti-capitalist as possible. I don’t have many extra dollars these days, so the point of these shares is to provide joy, sustenance and accessible resources. It also won’t include TikToks or Instagram posts because I’m not active on those platforms right now. Memes are free game though, especially blasphememes!
I hope you enjoy today’s inaugural list! And keep reading for year-ahead offerings, gifts, and goodies!
THE FRIDAY FIVE 🖐️
WeightedHeat™ XL Extra-long Full Back Heating Pad by Comfytemp — Okay, I know I said this was a low-spend list, but I’ve been in a terrible pain flare for over a week now, and I’ve spent so much time wrapped up in this bad boy it’s basically become a second skin. It’s big, it’s warm, it’s electric, and it’s my very best friend. And no, that’s not an affiliate link or a spon-con moment, I truly just love it so much and wouldn’t be the woman I am today without it.
Love Island Australia Season 6 — In our 8 years together (4 married as of today), Stacey and I have watched every single episode of Love Island UK, USA, and AUS. In fact, we rented an AirBnb for a long weekend during the pandemic for the sole purpose of watching S3 of Love Island AUS in its entirety. So of course we’ve been devouring the current season as new episodes drop almost-daily. (I also must confess that when one was glitching, I wrote to Hulu to let them know… It was fixed by the next day. Did my message save the entire Love Island franchise? Time will tell.

The below meme, which reads: today i will be gentle with myself. unless of course i make even one mistake in which case i will be very hard on myself. — WHEW BABY I FELT THIS IN MY KNEECAPS. A good reminder to drink some water, take a few deep breaths, and be fucking nice to your sweet self. You’re doing the very best you can, and everything is a shit-show right now. Now, knock it off.
Meg’s newest episode of Call Your Coven: Collective Readings 101 — Is this cheating because I’m technically now serving you up something I had a hand in making? MAYBE. But also this episode that Meg put together is prescient and powerful, and I super timely call for discernment when watching online spiritual readings meant for a collective audience. They give great tips and advice for choosing readers you trust, and remind us to not be mindless consumers of information that may or may not have weight in our worlds.
Exploring my Human Design chart — First things first, that link will not take you to my personal chart, but it will take you to MyBodyGraph.com, so you can pull up your own chart! Second, if you’re unfamiliar, Human Design in my own words (so don’t quote me, okay?) is a blending of astrology and the I Ching energy systems, and yes it was channeled by some dude, but it also has really helped me to understand facets of my energetic self. Third, I had the honor and pleasure of having my chart read by a dear friend, and she unlocked a completely new and different aspect of my chart: Even though I type out to be a Manifestor, I don’t actually fit the traditional definition of one, and am instead like a Manifestor x Projector hybrid! Just one example of this radical shift that I’m now exploring in my day-to-day is that Manifestors are meant to employ a strategy of informing folks about their powerful initiations, while Projectors are guided to wait for an invitation to step in and do their work. Talk about a different way of approaching work and the world! But honestly, I have tons of life experiences that support this new information, and I’m excited to learn more! Fellow projectors, hit me up!

Happy Friday! Let me know what you think of this new segment, and if you love any of the things I love! <3
Looking Ahead to 2025 🥂
WANT TO KNOW WHAT 2025 HAS IN STORE?!
You voted, and I listened! Recorded readings won by a mile!
2025 is a collective 9 year, the last in a cycle that started in 2017, but to know what kind of energetic experience is shaping up for you personally, you'll need to know where you are in your own trek through the building block spiral of 1 through 9.
2025 & YOU: A Recorded Reading for Your Year Ahead
Using your birth date, I'll record you an audio-only reading that covers:
Your Yearly Cycle Number for 2025 and the magical markers of that year within your current 9-year cycle
How your Yearly Cycle Number interacts with the collective Yearly Cycle of 9
Tips, tricks, and teachers for your year ahead, including your Major Arcana Tarot Card of the Year
A breakdown of your personal Monthly Cycle Numbers from January through December, and how to work with them
Additional and personalized information channeled while building your Year Ahead chart
PLEASE NOTE:
All MP3 recordings will be sent via email on DECEMBER 21, 2024, aka The Winter Solstice, aka Yule!
The Daily Digits Planner PDF will be emailed 1-2 days after purchase.
You'll also receive a complimentary digital download of:
DAILY DIGITS - A 2025 Agenda for Magical Makers
A planner to help you to find magic in every mundane moment this year. May you be inspired to imbue each day with joy and gentleness, and may you never forget an important date, appointment or event!
This digital download (PDF) includes:
99 fun, scrapbook-inspired pages, handcrafted by yours truly (me!)
A welcome blessing and a brief overview of the 9 collective year
Pages for exploring planetary and numeric days, noting your personal Yearly Cycle Number and Tarot Card of the Year, setting intentions, and jotting down goals
An overview of the collective Monthly Number for each month of 2025, complete with inspirational quotes and energetic themes to expect
Pages for finding and exploring your personal Monthly Number, space to set monthly goals, and to note exciting events to look forward to
Weekly Planner Pages for every week of 2025, which include the core Daily Numbers for EVERY SINGLE DAY OF THE YEAR, as well as space to write To-Do Lists, Magical Musings, and Monthly Takeaways
Pages to wrap out the year, reflect on your Yearly Cycle, remember your favorite moments, and look ahead to 2026
I’d Like to Ask the Audience 👥
This year got a little messy when it came to my paid pals, but I’d like to button things up in 2025 and offer more to those who are wonderfully willing to support my work and my words. Thank you for your time and your answers!
A Gift for You 🎁
SITS recently hit a huge new subscriber milestone! There are over 900 of us swimming along together! Thank you SO MUCH for receiving all of my words over the years, and please keep sharing with anyone who you think would love to join us.
As a thank you, I wanted to offer one of my favorite creations of the year:
SPELLS FOR THE SPIRAL 🌀
A bespoke booklet of spells for every building block number. Perfect for baby witches and seasoned crones alike! ✨🔮
Table of Contents:
DIVINING YOUR SPARK
SWEETENING THE DEAL
TELLING THE TRUTH
FUNERALS FOR EVERYONE
THE HIGH-FIVE
GOOD LUCK IN A/YOUR BAG
TINKERING WITH TALISMANS
CLEARING YOUR ENERGY
LETTING THINGS SIMMER
PS. This was previously a PWYC offering, so if you enjoy the booklet and want to send me a little tip or buy me a coffee, you can do that here! While you’re there, check out my other offerings on my Gumroad shop.
love this list and this list idea so much! that meme destroyed me.